TRACK 3: THE FLAW OF JUDGMENT IN A SOCIAL WORLD


Please stop judging. Please stop judging. Please. Please. Just please stop judging. Just please stop judging. It’s just so obvious and clear It’s just so obviously clear now that everybody’s got a pen now that everybody’s got a pen and a paper and a paper It’s a phone. – it’s a phone. Now that everybody’s got a pen and a paper, now that everybody’s got a pen and a paper judgement is fucking flying judgement is fucking flying from
every dimension, every angle. from every- every dimension, every angle; Everybody’s judging and
I’m just asking you please to stop. everybody’s judging and I’m just asking please to stop. Share Share Share, share, but build people up
– don’t drag them down. but build people up don’t drag them down. Judgement coming from all angles, Judgement coming from all angles,
in all streams, all the time, 24/7. in all streams. All the time. 24/7. WHO THE FUCK ARE YOU TO JUDGE? Who the fuck are you to judge? WHO THE FUCK DO YOU THINK YOU ARE? Who the fuck do you think you are? I just am flabbergasted by people’s inability
to realize the hypocrisy of their judgements. I just am flabbergasted by people’s inability to realize the hypocrisy of judgements They’re gonna be exposed. You’re gonna be exposed. You’re gonna be exposed. You’re gonna be exposed. Do you understand? Do you understand? Don’t judge! Don’t judge. You can – you can judge in your mind. You can judge in your mind. Let it fester. Let it articulate. Let it fester a little, articulate But be thoughtful. Don’t be quick to judge. But be thoughtful. don’t be quick to judge Look at yourself first. Look at yourself first. Just because you may not be doing A, Just because you may not be doing A you might be doing C. you might be doing C. Is there a difference? Is there a difference? One of the biggest weaknesses One of the biggest weaknesses of all of us, of all of us as people, as entrepreneurs, as people, as entrepreneurs, as content creators, as content creators- is we spend energy is we spend energy on judging someone else on judging someone else because we create a fake narrative in our head, in that moment that makes us feel better that makes us feel better. If you’re in a mindset where judging
and dragging somebody else down, if you were in a mindset where judging and dragging somebody else down contributes to your happiness
– you’ve fundamentally fucking lost this game. contributes to your happiness, you’ve fundamentally fucking lost this game. And I implore you, And I implore you, I beg of you, I hope of you I beg of you I hope of you that maybe this second that maybe this second starts the process
of going in the other direction. starts the process of going in the other direction. Offense always beats defense. Offence ALWAYS
beats defense. This new world of communication
where everybody has the power to share. In this new world of communication where everybody has the power to share Judgement of others is at an all time high
in its distribution, but my friends judgement of others is at an all time high, in its distribution, but my friends this has been the way it always been from the get. this has been the way it
has always been from the get. Nothing has changed; Nothing has changed. Technology is exposing us. Technology is exposing us. Not changing us. It’s not changing us It’s time that we look at each other It’s time that we look at each other
and understand what we really are, and understand who we really are and deal with the harsh, harsh, harsh truths and deal with the hard truth harsh, harsh truths of some of our shortcomings and
judgement of others is a the tippy top. of some of our shortcomings and judgement of others is at the tippy top I look at so many entrepreneurs, I look at so many entrepreneurs
and so many business people, so many business people, so many of you that watch me to try to achieve and so many of you that watch me to try to achieve, spend a disproportion 50, 70, 90% of their times spend a disproportion: 50, 70, 90%
of their time JUDGING somebody else judging somebody else for that quick shot of adrenaline or happiness for that quick shot of adrenaline or happiness or that fake fucking BOOST or that fake fucking “boost”. That they get stuck on and they don’t break through. that they get stuck on and they don’t break through. I will not judge you I will not judge you. You’re you. You’re you. I will talk about my truths.
I will debate you in the things I don’t believe. I will talk about my truths. I will debate you in the things that I don’t believe But who the fuck am I? Who the fuck am I? I am zero. I’m zero. I’m nobody. I’m nobody. I will not judge you. You do you. Do it the right way. I will not judge you. You do you. Do it the right way. Do it the way that will build for your legacy. Allow it to be in a way that Allow it to be in a way that when everybody judges when everybody judges that those 8 billion that those 8 billion people judge you correctly
the way you wish they would. people judge you correctly the way you wish they would the way that would make your grand-kids proud The way that would make your grandkids proud. but I would spend zero of my moments judging, But I will spend zero of my moments judging. ZERO.
And I implore you to do the same. zero And I implore you to do the same.

86 Responses

  1. Neo Jb74 says:

    Amen! ๐Ÿค˜

  2. Etu Taito says:

    This one sounded like it came right off of an Eminem Mixtape!!

  3. Audrey Relates says:

    Love this man! So true!!!!

  4. Ajay Orr says:

    Build the biggest building by actually building it, not tearing down the ones around you.

  5. Orangeman Cometh says:

    You like broccoli and foosball? Not judging. You like throwing homosexuals off buildings and forcing women to wear bags over their heads? Judging.

  6. Mark Arron Smith says:

    So true, the people who judge arenโ€™t happy with their life.

  7. -This Infinite Life - says:

    Anyone who tries to bring you down is already beneath you. "Build people up, don't drag them down…
    Offense always beats defense…Make your grandkids proud."

  8. Peter F Adams says:

    no space in your life for judging others. Judge not lest ye be judged. ( but enough religion ). focus on your own path, your own journey. not on how someone else is travelling their path, but not your way.

  9. Asterina Putri says:

    love the concept hate the quality of the audio

  10. Acoustic Silk says:

    This is literally an album

  11. ษฎึ…สŠีผฤ‹ษ› ึ…ส„ส„ says:

    You're like the wise grandpa I never had

  12. Maxwell Oldham says:

    Hey Gary, have you read "The Four Agreements"? It would be cool if you and your badass team could do a GaryV version of that. Yalls thoughts… (btw thank you Gary for all of this, you've done so much. sincerely, thank you.)

  13. Vincent Mulder says:

    Gary this is one of the most authentic pieces of content I've seen in a long time

  14. Erik Manassy says:

    "Judgment coming from all angles and all streams, all the time, 24/7. Who the fuck are you to judge? " – Exactly, it's why reading through the garbage on social media is difficult. Many are becoming nasty and it sucks. BUT, people are taking their queue from what they consume, and the MEDIA is infamous for setting the standard. THE WRONG STANDARD! All they do is judge!

  15. Yvon / Thrifty Rich says:

    Judge quietly to the edge of Discernment, Tempered Discernment at that… for your own use to finding the Good. Thinking of Passing Judgement? tread carefully please : )

  16. Basit Rashid says:

    So fucked up how judging others is seen as the norm nowadays, and so hard to escape, thats why i have cut those people out of my life. If you dont want to be judged dont judge others.

  17. Sheila Spence says:

    people who are quick to judge usually are a negative lonely person who are not providing any positive content. Thanks Gary, love you:)))))

  18. Syed Asrar says:

    โ€˜You do you.. do it the right wayโ€™ โค๏ธ๐Ÿ‘Œโค๏ธ

  19. Jim Meskimen says:

    My wife and I have dedicated our lives to this. She has an acting school, the only one of its kind, that does NOT ALLOW criticism. It's revolutionary.

  20. The Bob Wahl Show says:

    This should be a required training video to everyone before being allowed to be on social media.

  21. Jack Downe says:

    I just fucking love you. You are such a beautiful human being.FUCK.. What I just saw on this video, right now, was so powerful and true.YOU ARE YOU. AND THANK YOU SO MUCH GARY ! THANK YOU.I just can not thank you enough for being who you are.

  22. Jen Rottmann says:

    You're so right we need to let go of judging others if we want to evolve into a better society… I had to come to face that truth that I was judging other people so much all the time, but the reason I was judging so harshly was because I was judging myself so harshly and was unhappy with myself so I simply projected that on others and as cheesy and fluffy as it sounds the only way to combat that is to do the hard work and really accept yourself for you who are with all your positive and negatives cause like you said in the last video we all have flaws none of us are perfect.

  23. Gitsum says:

    Not to be nit picky, but you're wrong about offense always beating defense. Statistically, that is false. A number one ranked defense almost always beats a number one ranked offense.

  24. HOMETOWN GO says:

    Only three in, but def one of my favorites so far! Share and build!!! Fuck bringing people down! That mindset is a cancer on our world!!! Preach it Gary! ๐Ÿ™Œ

  25. Team GaryVee says:

    Hit the caption button if you need to understand the words better on any of the project videos!

  26. Matt Scott says:

    well said.

  27. David Kile says:

    Love this!

  28. Ivan Hidalgo says:

    amazing videos, amazing format,all these rants need captions

  29. Gary Lane says:

    Gary, thank you for releasing these! I agree 100%. Again, thank you. Iโ€™ll listen to every one. Grinding is my passion and the process is my environment. Love ya, brother. Have a great holiday.

  30. John Basedow says:

    We have no idea what issues the folk we meet are facing. Be kind. Deploy empathy. Donโ€™t judge. ๐Ÿ’ช๐Ÿผ๐Ÿ’ฏ

  31. Stephanie Clarke says:

    I hate judgment. U never Kno what card's someone was dealt.. whet their hand looks like that made them make the move that you're judging… We all have diff chemical engineering on top of that… Just find it pointless. Be compassionate. Be understanding. Never naive .. I have opinions on things but never in the end am I sitting around judging someone. #LoveThis

  32. veedubz1 says:

    Its good Gary, but i dont think its your best work, your energy level on the podcast/other formats that you put out content on lends to your style better. I understand that on a plan you cant be as "G'd" up as normal, just my 2 cents for what its worth. Still love your audio experience best

  33. Lisa McKown says:

    You had me at Hello……. Much respect.

  34. parambir barry says:

    Hi,big bro Gary, I respect and value you for what you stand for,keep going, never let anyone change your values beliefs message North Star and your truths-keep on going and never quit because you are a fighterForm your friend and fellow brother in arm Parambir Singh Randhawa Anyone who has read this comment,feel free to reply or understand this applies to you too-every human has unlimited potential, however the only person who can hold you back from extraordinary is yourself so just free yourself and become extraordinary, make it your identity!!!-I Am Extraordinary,magnificent and truly amazing!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!'!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!๐ŸŒŽ๐Ÿ’ฏ๐Ÿ’ช๐Ÿพ๐Ÿ˜Ž๐Ÿ™‚โค๏ธ๐Ÿฅ‡โ˜๏ธ๐Ÿ˜Š๐ŸŒŽ๐Ÿ’ฏ๐Ÿ’ฏ๐Ÿ’ฏ๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿพ

  35. parambir barry says:

    If you judge negitively to feel better about your self-don't let your lack of self esteem ruin your life or others secondly, Don't ruin the world ๐ŸŒŽ because of your emotions about your self-if you want good self esteem love โค๏ธ yourself truly and fully based on your values for life and acting on them!!!

  36. BeBeStudio says:

    I have something like "day without judge and complaining" (one day in week). Now i know that it's should be 7, not 1 day in week. That's my new goal. Thx Gary so much <3 take love from me – 17yo entrepreneur. @bebson19

  37. Delisa Toole says:

    I believe American Idol ushered us into a whole new level of judging – Get in front of an audience and give it your best and then wait for the judges to publicly critique. It was a hit! And the rest is history.

  38. Roland Kwiatkowski says:

    Amen – why judge when we are all made of the same cloth but cut differently. We are still cloth!

  39. Nationwide Equipment Transportation, Inc says:

    Sounds like judgements are getting to Gary? Don't let them get you down man. We got your back!

  40. John Kennedy Wilson says:

    Bravo. YOU GET IT! Stay on message my brother. Thank You!

  41. John Kennedy Wilson says:

    Lead by Example and follow good leaders and role model. I am following your map. The deeper I dig in the more I am realizing this is a masters course. Thanks Gary

  42. Alex Collingwood-Williams says:

    As much as I agree with this message wholeheartedly and want EVERYONE to follow this, people are people man. Judging is something that will never go away until human cease to exist. Having said I know that if only one person changes from this, then that is a huge success!

  43. yungnavz says:

    Facts on facts on facts
    Nothing but value
    My inner self appreciates u
    All of u

  44. ronP __ says:

    Happy 1 Million subs!
    cheers!!!
    ron:)

  45. Griciu Griger says:

    Gary I've got a really crucial question to you about the judgement that you've mentioned in that Airplane project. The thing is that I totally agree with you that we should not judge other people in terms of their failures because their failures are still their failures and I'm totally okay with that but what about people's actions performed towards us? If it happened so that somebody has stabbed me in the back or is clearly tellin' me some bullshit so he or she thinks that he or she can trick me in someway then are we allowed to judge him or her? I am just very confused about that topic and I want it to be as coherent as possible because let's be honest – sometimes the judgement is necessary when for example we try to suffocate someone's bullshit excuses or any other type of insincerity.

  46. Dana Raquel says:

    The world is plagued by this one

  47. Abraham Tadesse says:

    You have the right to not like something someone did. But that's about it. Other than that,you only control your actions.

  48. Zarafsha Mahmood says:

    Gary your mind is always high

  49. KnowleDJ says:

    how about constructive criticism?

  50. Sanji Vinsmoke says:

    Is GaryVee christian or what ? I've been googling for 3 days about that ahah.

  51. TheCalgaryPainter says:

    Judge not and ye shall not be judged. Being so goddamn judgemental is the thing I dislike most about myself. Thanks for the kindly reminder Gary.

  52. Michael Nally says:

    That hit home hard Gary. Thanks. โœŒ๏ธ

  53. DJTriumph38 says:

    Build people up, don't drag them down.

  54. Andrew Hazzlee says:

    For some reason I can't get english captions on android mobile ๐Ÿ™

  55. Aldona Koperta says:

    He didn't have wifi for 3 hours and recorder during that time new series. Master of creativity

  56. Tom Oluleye says:

    the actual content is great but clearer audio and a beat in the background would have made it fire!

  57. Edward Casanova says:

    Real talk!

  58. benjy l b says:

    My question is what do you consider judgement because you have said that people are stupid for saying things they believe.

  59. The Duane Marino Experience says:

    Put these on Audio and lace it with a sick beat…. Better yet, don't record these without one

  60. Alyssa Almanza says:

    I'm working on not judging. I don't think I am too bad at it cause I'm pretty open minded but I still need to work on it cause I catch myself sometimes. And sometimes it's a bit of jealousy but I'm working on that too.

  61. Krystina Dowdell says:

    โ€œWe create a fake narrative in our minds that makes us feel better… Judgement is high in distribution…. but technology is exposing us.โ€ – Gary V.

  62. Lure says:

    One time I judged someone, and then I was like: wait I don't have a Juris Doctorate. Lemme stfu.

  63. Derdy TV says:

    That moment you feel you want to judge is the time you should reach out and teach a quick lesson. How many lives will You effect ??

  64. Blacktrail Art says:

    Not judging is simple but not natural. All you have to do is imagine yourself in the other person's shoes. Would you like to be judged the way you are judging? If your judgment creates value and you can communicate it effectively you get thumbs up but if you just want to gain 12 seconds of attention to flatter your ego you'll be the guy or girl who's just good enough at tearing people down. This is the way everyone will see you and you will attract people who think its cool. At the end of the day you will not even be remembered because your judgment was merely entertaining and everyone knows how short entertainment on the web is.

    In a few posts my comment will have disappeared, drowned in other comments. But that's ok because that's the fate of all the comments. I just put it out there because I want to say it even if no-one is reading. My mother was a Greek immigrant arriving to France in the 70s and I ate shit in school because I have a Greek first name and talk a bit funny. That's why Gary's story touched me and decided to listen. In the end if you listen carefully you will come to the same realization: just ignore the dumb judgments and rise above, the haters will pick on someone else when you ignore them. At least it works for me.

  65. Alexander Sandalis says:

    I honestly struggle with this and am conflicted with how to change it.
    I'm figuring out some of my self esteem stems from feeling like I'm better than other people and I'm conflicted on how to change this mindset. A recent past experience has shown me how it's not a healthy mindset, but sometimes I do feel better than other people and this helps push my competitiveness and confidence. I then think, well then a portion of your confidence is built on a rocky unstable foundation. Can others share their perspective on this? Very simply question: do you feel like your better than anyone else? We're all working towards our own success in our fields of choice, so we have to be better than people to excel, does not mean we can feel better than others? I dunno…

  66. Thought-Provoking Inspiration: Self-Help says:

    Gary.. i wont even expand on what you said.. because i rthink you just said it all.. perfectly..
    I will say tho.. that this is actually something that recently came to my attention as well.. observing my friend's behavior on fb helped me realize it… and I've actually stopped using fb for many of these same reasons..

    "Judgment is fucking flying from every, every dimension, every angle." "All the time"…

    That's the real word.. my friend..

    ๐Ÿ™๐Ÿฝ๐Ÿ™๐Ÿฝ๐Ÿ™๐Ÿฝ thank you man… seriously..
    Thank you

  67. InternetBizUni says:

    This is true. It's good to be aware of it cos now it's possible to make a conscious decision not to judge. Thank you

  68. Yvette Sholdas says:

    A couple of years ago I noticed how much I filtered people, connections through my judgement, so I took 12 months where I would consciously not filter or judge that I'd challenge myself – incredible how things change and opportunities open even where you never imagined they would because we judged someone in some way. Loved this one and think I need to put more effort into being aware of judgement and being more accepting, tolerant and open to more ๐Ÿ™‚

  69. Kyle Gillis says:

    LOVE the audio quality! I think this is fucking great. All of it. To me, this is better watching it unfold out of his mind with less of a filter compared to hearing his same pitch in every video. Truly truly truly appreciate this style.

  70. BLAZE CAMP says:

    Dammit Gary! ๐Ÿคฆโ€โ™‚๏ธ Carry a lapel pin microphone will ya? Str8 plug to the phone ๐Ÿ“ฒ ๐Ÿ™…โ€โ™‚๏ธ love every episode, love every rant, but the audio pisses me off ๐Ÿ˜‚ carry one as ๐Ÿšจ emergency! Iโ€™ma send you one for Christmas…

  71. Lucas Santoro says:

    I can't decide witch one is my favorite

  72. Sarah Stahl says:

    Dang. Someone with some Klout finally said it! Thank you Gary! It's all true and you articulated it so well.

  73. Betsy Stevens says:

    <3 this Gary it pumps me up <3 You never judged me and I appreciate that whole heartedly.

  74. No Face says:

    It's just fascinating to me how raw and yet powerful this is. I'm stressing out about production, about how my editing skills are lacking when none of that matters. None of that matters. Not at the scale of the value you provide. Value always comes first.

  75. Urban Chris says:

    This is like Immortal Technique on an Airplane :D, I love it

  76. Paul Smithberger says:

    People are so quick to judge. They always look for the thing to justify their failure. They like to point fingers at some advantage someone else had as the reason they aren't doing anything.

  77. DEANA DOES says:

    Judge less, Love more. Sending love & good vibes to all! ShopOGCJ.com

  78. Sharethatsnap says:

    Watching again because you suggested to via Twitter @Garyvee

  79. Mike Cautillo says:

    In the grand scheme of things though, to truly be free of any judgement is to not judge the judges too….just sayin, life is one big contradiction isn't it!

  80. koni s. says:

    ๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ˜

  81. Jerald Vann Buhat says:

    Speechless. Unspeakable happiness. Thanks Gary!

  82. Small Guy Promotions says:

    Going to bring this to my team huddle today. A great message Thank you!

  83. Prevalent says:

    don't judge me for being judgmental buddy your being hypocritical

  84. Jacob Barlow says:

    Love this one

  85. alex says:

    โค๏ธ

  86. Joshua Miller says:

    Watched the whole series and this track hit me the hardest. Towards the end when you say that if someone starts to get their happiness by dragging others down then they've lost the game [of life]. That hit me differently, because I definitely am tempted to sink to that level when I think someone else is doing it to me first. But coming at it from this angle, it's a lot easier to resist that urge because I don't want to lose the game of life and if you make that call you've lost.

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